People come into your life for a reason, a season or a lifetime.


When you know which one it is, you will know what to do for that person.


When someone is in your life for a REASON, it is usually to meet a need you have expressed. They have come to assist you through a difficulty, to provide you with guidance and support, to aid you physically, emotionally or spiritually. They may seem like a godsend and they are. They are there for the reason you need them to be. Then, without any wrongdoing on your part or at an inconvenient time, this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end. Sometimes they die. Sometimes they walk away. Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand. What we must realize is that our need has been met, our desire fulfilled, their work is done. The prayer you sent up has been answered and now it is time to move on.


Some people come into your life for a SEASON, because your turn has come to share, grow or learn. They bring you an experience of peace or make you laugh. They may teach you something you have never done. They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy. Believe it, it is real. But only for a season.


LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons, things you must build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation. Your job is to accept the lesson, love the person and put what you have learned to use in all other relationships and areas of your life. It is said that love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant.

"Sometimes we tend to be in despair when the person we love leaves us, but the truth is, it's not our lost, but theirs, for they left the only person who couldn't give up on them."

You're an extravert/extrovert.
Others see you as a fresh, lively, charming, amusing, practical and always interesting. Someone who's constantly in the center of attention, but sufficiently well-balanced not to let it go to their head, well balanced not to let it get to you. People also see you as kind, considerate, and understanding, someone who'll always cheer them up and help them out.

Tomorrow is September 3,
The day that my mother was born.
Not a day goes by where I don't wish that I had the chance to know her.
Not a day goes by where I don't wish that I can remember memories of her.
& lastly, not a day goes by where I wish that my younger brother got to know her, or even have pictures with her as a child, even if he wouldn't remember her, at least he had pictures with her.
It's ironic that a person that you don't even know but share the same blood can mean so much to you.
Since 1988, September has been a difficult month for me, for my whole family.
It's the month that the one person who is there to nurture you as a child left our lives forever.
I feel the pain of those who have recently lost their mothers,
But at the same time, I'm also very envious of them.
They have recent and many memories with their mothers, they have pictures and even videos of events they can remember.
I or even my younger brother can't even remember the sound of her voice.
I try to live each day to make her proud.
But of course, not every day is a proud moment.
I'm sure that some actions I may have done would have disappointed her.
But again it's all assumptions.
September, you are an emotional month for me.
You've blessed me with a mother, brother, 2 sisters in law, but you also are the month where my mother was called to God.