Wednesday, April 03, 2013

"It shouldn't be easy to be amazing.  Then everything would be.  It's the things you fight for & struggle with before earning that have the greatest worth.  When something's difficult to come by, you'll do that much more to make sure it's even harder - or impossible - to lose."- Sarah Dessen
I'm sure we've all witnessed that hard work, dedication, & motivation leads to something amazing.
However, sometimes once we reached what we THOUGHT we wanted,
It's either not what we expected,
Or we don't try anymore,
That hard work, dedication, & motivation went away.
For example, weight.
Once you've reached your goal weight, after all the dieting & working out,
You thought that you'd be noticed more by someone,
But really, that chemistry simply wasn't there for the other person.
Also, to maintain your goal weight, you have to continue to eat well & exercise,
Because if you don't, you're back to where you started,
Unhealthy & overweight.
Another example can be a job.
You worked hard to get a job, but it was more responsibilities than you realized, stress increased, unhappy, & although the money may be good, you stop spending time with loved ones.
Or you start slacking off & becoming lazy because you got that promotion.
When it comes to relationships, there are various stages.
One of the stages that often goes out the door when the relationship begins is the butterfly stage.
The stage where cutesy things are done like sweet words & nice gestures.
Romance flies away as the couple becomes comfortable.
Nothing is impossible to lose,
There is something or someone that can offer more.
Don't stop trying or being more than what you can be.